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Cords - Explained
We all have cords attached to us, invisible, ethereal cords. They are where we have connections with other people, in fact from nearly everyone we form a relationship or friendship with. We have cords with our parents, lovers, partners, ex-partners, colleagues, bosses, our children, even our pets and from people who have passed on. In fact all relationships of all kinds, all our friends and also people we don’t get on with. We also have cords attached to our belongings we own or have owned. Our homes, cars, places we have moved from, the telephone, our furniture, places of work, the list goes on. You only need to research Feng Shui to enhance this truth. So we are not just who we appear to be, we have this huge web of ‘cords or ribbons’ attaching us, emotionally, to millions of things. Many cords do not last forever, they can eventually drop naturally, really dependant up on our attachment to belongings, their sentimental value etc. Imagine the attachment to something that belongs to you or the furniture in your room, if you have had an argument in there or had bad thoughts while you are on the telephone. Even the cords between people can eventually drop naturally, but not always, especially if that person is still in your life the cords will usually remain strong.
There are two types of ribbons, cords or ties.
1). Love Ribbons or Ties – These can Never be cut or lost, they connect us forever. They are there to help us find each other from one lifetime to another, if we choose to do so.
2). Negative Cords – These cords do not allow us freedom, we are connected to each other through fear and control or just wasted energy through our belongings.
There are often very good reasons why the cords remain between people. There may be Karmic Issues that was set in place before you were born and they may have never dropped from your past life because you had not resolved the Karmic issue.
Ties between people can be very beautiful if they are unconditional, but when they are not, our life can be messy and difficult with people we interact with. In some relationships there are what are known as ‘Energy Vampires’, people who quite literally can suck the energy from you, creating ties between you both. You can soon learn to recognise this when you feel completely drained after spending time with that person. This indeed can be in romantic relationships, as well as friends and with family. To recognise such a person they may have traits where they may speak very fast, maybe they actually touch you as they communicate, they may get too close to your face, or talk too quietly and you have to move in closer to listen, sometimes you only have to stand to close to someone and they ‘steel’ your energy!! Can you imagine living with such a person, you would be totally drained and tired. They can even drain you from a distance, these days it is easier for them, not only their thoughts of you, but we can communicate with email and many social networks and they can reach us this way too.
If you find this is happening to you, you should most definitely consider having the ties or cords removed between you and this person. If you do not want to have the decording, you most certainly need to start to keep your distance ad loosen your connection, in small steps so that the Ties begin to stretch and eventually they will break.
There are various sorts of cords, some are good and some are not so good, we all have cords connecting us with our parents. We have cords from past lives too. Love cords are always good and cannot be removed. It is the cords of the more 'negative attachments' that we have with various people, that can hold us back in life and stop us becoming who we truly are or who we are truly meant to be.
The more negative the cords are with someone, you may find that it is these people who can cause us to react in a certain negative pattern when we meet up with them. You may notice you don’t respond the same way you do to everyone, this can sometimes be the case when we visit our parents or other family members. We fall into a set behaviour pattern, which is not truly us.
An example can be where you are friends with someone and you are both becoming Spiritually Enlightened, but one becomes more so than the other. You may have been dependant on each other to start with, but now one starts to gain their own strengths. You may no longer need that friend in your life, but there is still energy between you. You may find that one may have been controlling over the other. One person will not like it when they are no longer receiving the energy from the other. We all need to develop our own strengths and be our ‘Own Person’. It is good to make friends who are equal to you, a good friendship needs to be made as a Soul Based relationship.
It is not just people that you can have your 'cords' or 'ties' removed. It can sometimes be very beneficial for people to have cords removed from specific events or even for people who have a negative or unhealthy attachment to money. Yes, you can receive decording from money. Maybe you have a poor association with money and feel you are not worthy. A decording session for this may well help you. After all money is only energy too!
For more information about Cords and Decording please see my other pages:
Decording Sessions | Cords in our Relationships | Cords with our Parents
