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Cords created in our Relationships.
Ties are created in ALL types of Relationships. This page is tailored to a better understanding of Partnership or Romantic Relationships.
Cords or ties are usually formed with our First Real Big love, not necessarily our first partner, but the person we really fall in love with and have a relationship with. The Cords or ties we create with this person can last the rest of your life and not cause you any harm. Here I am talking about the Love ties, not any subsequently formed negative ties.
Ties that may form with any other love affairs may indeed cause us some negative feeling, because sometimes they do not break once the love affair is over. The kind of relationships we do form are often based on the type of relationship behaviour, we have with either of our parents whether it was a good one or not! This may be a Karmic issue which needs to be healed.
If you do break up with someone it is best to avoid seeing or being in contact with that other person for at least 3 months. If you do have to see them, it is ok as long as you are not intimate with them or too friendly in any way. There are naturally occasions when you may have to stay in touch especially where there are children involved and so on. If at all possible, it is best to tell the other person of your intention of keeping apart and the reasons behind it otherwise the other partner may become angry or hostile, not knowing what is happening or why.
Ties may naturally fall away once the relationship is over, after 6 months away from each other. In many cases this does not happen and the people involved keep getting drawn back to each other and may try again with a relationship, split up again and return again, until finally one or the other has had enough, but that doesn’t always happen and they end up staying together for totally the wrong reasons. They are in a controlling relationship cycle and are not really good for each others growth and happiness. It is the Love cords that keep you coming back together with a person.
Breaking away from a relationship that we know is not good for us, will help us to identify more of who we are, free us and liberate us.
When people have many ‘one night stands’ for example, there can be many messy ties between these people. Eventually these ties should sort themselves out and fall away. For some people who live a life this way of constant short relationships or one night stands, it may prove very difficult for them to actually find Mr. or Mrs. Right. In one way it could almost be suggested that there are not enough ties left!! You may miss the person that was right for you! It could take 10 – 20 years before you get a new chance at finding the right person, if this is what they want. The way people live their lives is of course up to them and may be a very difficult choice for some people.
If someone goes away to work abroad for example, at first the ties will usually strengthen, as you miss each other. Then they can become weaker. If the person returns home again, the ties can become stronger, unless either of you have moved on in the time when the ties became weaker. The reason why the Ties can become stronger is like a Rubber Band effect – the less the ties have been stretched, the more intense the feeling of closeness and a longing for that feeling.
In a way this is why we have ties, so that we experience a wonderful emotional connection and a ‘Sixth Sense Connection’, to each other. We could sense so much more when we didn’t have the access to so many means of electronic communication!
So if you feel you require a Decording from one or more of your ex partners or even your current partner, as this may help you both, feel free to contact me for more information or email me your requirements.
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